Do you ever feel like you are not worthy of God’s love? Do you ever feel that regardless of how much you do, you are still not doing enough for God? Do you feel condemned because you feel you aren’t praying or studying enough? Finally, are you trying to earn God’s love through good works? If you exhibit any of these symptoms, you may suffer from PBCS. This is Performance Based Christianity Syndrome.
God’s grace is defined as unmerited favor. ”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Eph. 2:7-9) If we can get this, we will actually be able to enjoy our life with God. Yes we can do more! Yes we can pray more! Yes we can read our Bibles more! But we should do these things out of appreciation for what He has done for us, not to try to earn His love or His blessings. Have a relationship with God. We are to do good works, but not to prove ourselves to God. ”But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Rom. 5:8)
We have been adopted in to the family of God. Jesus said “Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.” That sounds like unearned love to me!
Don’t beat yourself up all of the time because you don’t study your Bible as much as Billy Bob. Just set aside some time and make sure it is quality time. That’s all. Sometimes people get to the point where they believe their work for God is so “sacrificial”. Kind of saying, “hey, look Lord…look…see how much I’m doing…now can you start answering my prayers?” That’s the wrong attitude. There has already been a sacrifice made for you and His name is Jesus. Accept it and live freely in the liberty God has given you in Christ.